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Myth vs Reality - Marketing

Updated: Nov 15, 2022

Because the name of this Circle of luxury professionals is Myth vs Reality, I'll start the ball rolling with some myths vs reality regarding one of my professions, which is marketing.

I have my circle members discuss among themselves regarding the myths vs reality of their roles and industries in private as well as their solutions for rectifying the myths.

But thought I'd share a teaser of the kind of discussions we have to see what solutions we can learn from each other to make things clearer and easier for our target audiences, ie the UHNWI.


The truth is the path to marketing success is deep in the jungle with decoys and traps camouflaged as time-honored clichés, old adages, commonly accepted clichés or words-of-wisdom. But if you’re reading this post, you’re about to obtain the ability to distinguish the facts from the fables.

There are all sorts of marketing myths that should be buried with the bones of dinosaurs. They may be enjoyable to read, but they are poisonous to any marketing plan and process.

There are hundreds of these poisonous marketing myths spreading like the flu, but on this post we’ll deal only with the top five because incorporating all of them would probably crash your server and leave you laughing in disbelief.

Marketing Myth #1: Marketing is most successful if it’s memorable

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Truth: Marketing is only successful if it moves your product or service at a profit. Memorability has nothing to do with it. Whether people remember it or not has nothing to do with successful marketing.

Studies continue to confirm that there is no relationship between remembering your marketing and buying your offering.

All that matters is if prospects are motivated to take action.

So don’t aim for memorability as much as desirability because that leads to profitability.

Marketing Myth #2: Bad publicity is better than no publicity at all

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Truth: This old adage is false. Bad publicity is bad for your business.

No publicity is a lot healthier for you. As human-being we just love to communicate—gossip, especially about businesses that have done something so disgusting, gruesome, horrendous, or distasteful that the media exposes it.

Do love publicity but avoid bad publicity because it spreads faster than the flu.

Marketing Myth #3: Marketing should entertain and charm

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Truth: Entertainers should entertain and charm. But marketing should sell your product or service. This widespread marketing myth is based upon studies that show people like marketing that entertains.

They may like it but they sure don’t respond to it. Alas, the marketing community nurtures this myth by presenting awards based upon glitz and glamour, humor and originality, special effects and killer jingles.

Those awards should be given for profit increases and nothing else. The only thing that should shine should be your bottom line.

Marketing Myth #4: The best and almost great marketing works instantly.

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Truth: First-rate sales work instantly. Great limited-time offers work instantly. But great marketing is not made up of sales and limited-time offers alone.

These will attract customers, but they won’t be loyal and they’ll be won by whoever offers the lowest price.

Great marketing is made up of creating a desire for your offering in the minds of qualified prospects, then peppering your offers with sales and limited-time offers.

But a program of fast-money making marketing usually leads to oblivion. The best marketing in the world took a long time to establish itself. Just ask the Mr.Clean man. Or the Snuggle bear. Or that lonely Mac Tools associate. None of that marketing worked instantly, but it has worked for decades and still does.

Marketing Myth #5: Sell the sizzle, not the steak.

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Truth: Sell the solution. The easiest way to sell anything is to position it as the solution to a problem.

If you look for the sizzle and not the problem, you’re looking in the wrong direction. Your prospects might appreciate the sizzle, but they’ll write a check for the solution.

Your job is to spot the problem then offer your product or service as the solution. If you think solutions, you’ll market solutions. If you think sizzle, you’ll sell sizzle.

You’ll find that the path of least resistance to the sale leads right through the problem to the solution.

So now over to you, comment what some of the myths in your industry are and how to go about rectifying them with the realities.

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But what about all the marketing that works on a subconscious level? The advertisements that aren't charming or entertaining and that you can't remember but when you're standing in the supermarket aisle suddenly make one brand look more attractive than all the others? Not sure of course if it works with yachts, haven't seen any in the supermarket lately.

Natalia Langsdale
Natalia Langsdale
Nov 13, 2022
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Aren't the yacht shows like supermarket aisles in yachting ;)

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